Christmas Remembrance Services

While this can be a magical time of year for many people if you have lost a loved one you might not be feeling so festive. Whether this is your first Christmas without a loved one, or whether this is just the time of year that makes the memories that little bit harder, Christmas Remembrance Services can be a lovely way to spend time reflecting on your time together.

Grieving is a very personal emotion, and while we all feel differently, there is sometimes a degree of comfort to be found when sharing a space with other people in the same situation.

What is a Christmas Remembrance Service?

A Christmas service of remembrance can be hosted by many groups. Sometimes a church will be holding a remembrance service, in some cases, a funeral director will provide this service, and various other groups will offer similar. During this short and informal gathering, you will have the chance to remember your loved one and reflect on their life. Some services will give you an opportunity to light a candle or place a star on the Christmas tree. In many cases, these services are aimed at all beliefs and faiths, and you are of course free to find the one you feel most represents your own life journey.

Can Anyone Attend?

It is typical for a funeral director or hospice to send named invites to all those families who have experienced loss during the year. They will be keen to stress that this is not exclusive. They are more than happy to see families of lost loved ones over the years. These are beautiful gatherings. They really help support people over the Christmas period when the world at large just seems to assume we should all be happy and smiling. It is an excellent way to bring balance to this time of year. You may well be spending time with other family and loved ones and want this to be a happy time for everyone, without forgetting that special person who has now passed.

Should I Take Anything?

There is no need to take anything with you; if the service includes adding a star or remembrance or lighting a candle, then these will be provided for you. The services are all-inclusive and may have music played, readings and church-based services hymns may be sung. That is why it is essential to find a service that suits you, as you do not want to feel uncomfortable. You may find that after the ceremony you are invited to stay for a cup of tea and a chance to chat to others but do not feel obligated if you want to leave, that is perfectly fine. The service will have been designed to offer peace and reassurance, so there is no obligation to do anything. You are welcome to take friends and family to share in your remembrance. If you feel that this is something that would help you then have a look for Christmas services of remembrance in your area.